Tue 13 Sep 2005
In the material world, its hard to see anyone with a big heart. Its not surprising. Take a look when you eat food courts or coffee shops, various people come approach you to “donate” some money. Most of the time, many people will just shun them away. Even me is one of the people and its not a big wonder at all. These people most of the time are just there to take opportunity of your kindness or is most of the time able-ed people that sell you soft toys for sky rocket prices.
However, last sunday morning, when I was out taking breakfast with my family, I saw kindness that is pretty rare in the city. In a coffeeshop in Serdan, a man (with down sydrome, I think) was carrying a pretty heavy weight of prawn crackers and was going from table to table seeking for customers. Most of the time, the customers would just turn him down and he would walk on the to next table hoping that the next one would buy from him. As he approached one of the table in the restuarant, he asked a man if he would like to purchase some prawn crackers (actually, his speech ability was a little slurred due to his disability). At first, I thought the man would as other people did, shun him away. However, the man instead turned and asked politely how much would a pack cost. The prawn cracker seller told him, “RM3 sir”, and the man purchased 2 packs. The prawn cracker walked away happily, knowing that he is 2 packs lighter.
Perhaps, many would think that there isn’t anything special about this man, but for me, I was touched at his kindness mainly because he was a man that doesn’t believe in buying prawn crackers. And that man is my father.
P/s : The prawn cracker’s weren’t that nice.

And the daugther usually shun the people away… tsk tsk tsk…
5 yrs back i used to donate to all these ppl but i stop it. y? bcuz i have meet one felor who used to ask ppl for money n show u the down syndrome face, but actually he is nothing wrong and use the money he take to buy cigaret n chat with the mamak stall boss like a normal ppl.
the symphaty face is just a tactic.
just follow our instinct and do what we can lor.
I used to turned down some door to door , or table to table donation, simply because I don’t have extra then, but now I doing OK liao, will help whenever I think or I feel it is OK.
jason, *takes his neck and strangles him*
sogua, you are too much of a city guy
auntie maria, i always believe in donating to charity home only cause too much of fraud cases
*hands stretching out*
heeeelllll…..*coughs* lllllpppppp *coughs* meeee!